Do you know your entire ideology of an alpha is falsified. We think of an alpha as someone that's aggressive, assertive, likes to throw his weight around, egotistical and is the de facto leader. Did you know this sort of alpha only exists in cattles and primates i.e. sheeps, cows, monkeys, chimpanzees and gorillas. Now considering both sheep and chimps to be degregatory terms to call a human being, really consider what set of ideals you are aspiring to when you act like a cunt.
You'll hear this alot. "Oh it's in the male DNA to fuck around and try to sleep with as many girls as possible" / "It's a part of nature". You are fucking retarded. Male animals with any level of paternal instinct don't engage in reckless sexual behaviours due to risk of impregnation. Look at lions, look at wolves. They understand every offspring is another mouth to feed that they need to be responsible for and hence irresponsible reproduction never takes place.
Now you may argue. "But in primates like gorillas they copulate for pleasure, for coercion and they have different mating patterns where they're polyamorous". Congratulations you behave like a monkey. An ape. That's the level of humanity that exists in you, you under evolved nigglet. If you're happy behaving like an actual ape feel free to crack on. Male gorillas also don't take care of their offspring and in human socities we call that a deadbeat loser. So if you're happy comparing your behaviour to monkeys and finding solace in that then I don't know what to tell you. I'm sure intelligent conversations aren't something you're often involved in.
To the rest of you that want to be better than monkeys. To those who haven't based your entire identity and idea of masculinity from either movies where dudes are play pretending to be someone they're not or from self proclaimed hard nut and ex "kickboxing champ" Andrew Tate and all these retarded "alpha" podcasts that have started popping up. Just know the notion of alpha males in wolves was studied and noted with wolves in captivity. The author of that book spent the rest of his life trying to highlight the fact that alpha males in wild wolves don't exist and that they operate on a family basis.
Lions and wolves are fucking badass. Monkeys and sheep are fucking gay. Lions and wolves have been used by virtually every civilisation to represent loyalty, courage and strength. What civilisation do you know that used monkeys as it's national animal? What sort of emotions would you feel if you were called a monkey by a stranger? Then ask yourself, why do you choose to act like one? Don't be a retarded faggot and work on your behaviour.
The point of existence is to recreate, there are obvious nuances to this statement that I will not expand upon, obviously life is not all about sex (and even within sex it isn't about the act itself but what the act in the ideal symbolises - the ultimate expression of love and intimacy) but ultimately I believe most people when able to, want to start a family. Western ideals have become misguided. To act like family values don't matter is fucking crazy. Our strong sense of community and our ability to cooperate with one another is what allowed us to thrive. We talk about human intelligence but it isn't simply the excellence of the individual but our ability to imitate excellence that allowed us to thrive as a group. It takes a village to raise a child but it starts with the family unit.
A man is someone that protects and cares for their family. Fucking whores isn't admirable and if you chase girls who's body count is higher than their IQ you're a fucking loser.
Looks and genetic traits that determine appearances are given such a heavy weighting in society. Apps like Tinder and Hinge solidify our perception in regards to the importance of these features. If these were the factors upon which our ancestors had decided their optimal partners then there would only be 6ft+ dudes all with a tank cannon for a cock. But we live in a reality where there is a wonderful variety of human beings all with their weird little complexities that we try and hide from the world. What I'm trying to say is - it's all about compatibility.