Having a child like anything that costs exorbitant amounts of money is a luxury. You as a parent should be responsible for your child and if you can't take care of an extra child learn to use a fucking condom. It is not the role of the government to raise and support your child. The system is broken so that we cannot afford to have children and that's the focal point that should be addressed, not, I don't know how to pull out, pay for my indiscretions. If we do not want a Big Brother state we need to act like responsible citizens in charge of our own destiny. It does not go both ways. You cannot ask the government to not intervene in your daily lives while also asking them to pay for your selfish decisions, 2 children is the average and for good reason. Having an extra child is your decision and your decision only, learn to be held accountable for your actions instead of asking others to bail you out.